Asperger dating online

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It’s still possible to have sexual and/or committed relationships, and while the ordeal may be painful at times, it is undeniably worth it.Create Your Free Personal Profile and Meet Real Guys and Girls Who Have Asperger's.

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Do any men or women on this site have Asperger's Syndrome and have difficulty with relationships and/or sex? I have Asperger's Syndrome and I have never had a girlfriend before and I have tried everything even internet dating. I've probably had 15-25 first dates, less than 10 second dates and 1 LTR.

Hi, I admire you're courage and fortitude, believe me, dating is complicated for everyone. He just operates with a different perspective (why should there be only one? You communicate really well, better than some w/o Asperger's! I didn't realise what was wrong until about 4-5 years ago.

While the merely awkward are at least subconsciously aware of these variables when they’re engaged in an interaction, someone with AS is wired to assume that (a) if someone finds us attractive, they will directly and immediately state it from the get-go and (b) they would want us to do likewise.

The idea that people communicate interest other than through what they actually say, or that even what someone says is fraught with layers and nuances — none of this occurs to us, since our instinct (which we assume the rest of the world shares) is to just say what we think and feel at length without any filters.

Few pieces of advice are more frustrating to a mild autistic, since “common sense” in dating involves intuitively knowing the assumptions that others will make about you based on the cues you give off through what you say and do — which, of course, is precisely what AS causes you to miss.

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